You probably have been experiencing a decline in your sex life since the lockdown. Spending quality time alone with your partner should be an excellent boost for your sex life, but COVID-19 has had a massive impact on our relationship life.
Many people are either having less sex, or the quality of the sex has dropped. The stress and anxiety we have to go through because of the recent happenings have significantly affected our libidos. So as the lockdown restrictions begin to ease, what can you do to spice up your sex life?
Before we dive into the ways, you can liven up your sex life, puzzle out what you need and want. Is it a massage, scheduled sex, emotional support, or physical pleasure and intimacy? Whatever it is, ensure you have some fun with it.
Now to how you can refresh your sex life:
The sexual experience begins within you, and so is masturbation. Thoughtful masturbation is an intimate activity that requires you to seduce yourself, smooch yourself, squeeze and caress your body, and slip off your clothes. Because this masturbation connects your body to your mind, you can explore yourself and engage in self-pleasure.
With thoughtful masturbation, the goal is not how flexible or orgasmic you are, but it is for you to explore your body without worrying about anyone else. The beauty of this is that you can do the masturbation alone, with your partner, or with a sex toy. In all, it is excellent for your wellbeing and your sex life.
Try Audio Erotica
Often overlooked is the brain when trying to liven up your sex life. You can revive your sexuality by exploiting your senses – and audio erotica is one perfect way to do so. Audio erotica can help trigger the mind and improve your sex drive, allowing you to attain sexual pleasure.
In pornography, the videos/pictures often reach out to the male folks and concentrate on the visual side of sex. In contrast, audio erotica appeals to both sexes and stimulates your imaginations to go wild. While you connect with the narrative, you can take part in your fantasies and turn-ons.
Be Specific about the Pornography you watch
The majority of pornography is designed with male folks in mind. So you may want to consider pornographies that appeal to both sexes, especially women. Also, you should engage with pornographies that are more innovative and less common so that you can better improve your sexual fantasies. Hence, the story you watch is significant when picking out the form of erotica.
Experiment with touch
To raise the stakes of your intimate time you spend with your partner, you may need to consider embracing the touching rules. Consider lying together and going over an audio storyline. Similarly, you may want to experiment with having mutual masturbation. In either case, take advantage of the audio narrative. Let it create a sensation and sexy mood between you and your partner while you enjoy touching each other.
As unsexy as you think this may sound, having scheduled sex makes you look forward and expectant of what lies ahead of the day. The scheduled sex also takes a bit of pressure off you and your partner while making plans to get intimate. So take advantage of this particular time of intimacy to enjoy sexual pleasure with your partner and spice up your sex life.